A baby spoon and a saucer did more than I expected

Friday at 11:16 PM 1728 views 6 posts

Hit my three-year mark lat week and celebrated by restocking the muffin tray, ha. I run a small cafe — 32 seats, doors open at 6:30, and I'm the one tasting the soup and the frosting every single morning. Early on I told myself tastes didn't count. They absolutely counted. Around month four I switched to a baby spoon for tasting and started putting my own lunch on a saucer instead of a real plate. That one swap changed more than I expected. Down 61 pounds, size 20 jeans to a 14 that's getting loose. Not fast. There were four months last winter where the scale didn't budge at all and I just kept the routines and kept showing up anyway. The pastry case still talks to me around 2pm. I won't pretend otherwise. But it's a conversation now, not a command. Anyone else working around food all day? How do you handle the taste-testing?

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Three years—congrats. The saucer is the part I undervalued. I’m not in a cafe, but I cook for a family of five, and I started putting my tasting spoon on a little saucer instead of licking it clean between pots. Seeing the smear/leftovers pile up made the “cook’s tax” real. I still don’t log each taste; I add a flat 100-ish calories to my breakfast on cooking days and adjust lunch. Do you count yours that way, or does the saucer actually catch the discards? I remember an old thread about invisible bites—this feels like the cousin of it.

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The baby spoon lowers the volume per taste; the saucer stops the second-order dips. The variable nobody talks about is frequency. I ran a cafe-ish kitchen and counted 11 tastes before 9am. Even at 15 cal each, that’s a snack. I moved to three scheduled tasting checkpoints—soup, frosting, final garnish—and logged the total as one line. Spoon size helped, but cadence was the bigger lever. How many tastes are you actually doing per shift now?

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I started noting my tastes in a notes app with a timestamp, just “soup, 7:12” or “frosting, 8:40.” Turned out 80% of my extra spoon trips happened during the two service rushes, not scattered through the day. Have you looked at when your second-order dips happen? Curious if it’s tied to a specific cafe rhythm rather than just the saucer itself. Also, did you find the baby spoon changed the mouthfeel enough that you actually stopped wanting the second taste, or was it purely the smaller volume?

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Three years is huge. The thing that got me wasn’t the tasting—it was the “broken” pastry at the counter: one bite here, half a croissant there. I started putting all those misfits on a small deli lid by the register and calling it my actual 10 a.m. snack, not a freebie. Seeing it pile up was weirdly useful. Still warm from the oven, though, so I feel you on the muffin tray. Do you log those tasting bites, or just count them as part of the day and move on? I never knew which was less obsessive.

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Three years is huge—congrats! The thing that changed my kitchen-adjacent grazing was a “walk-away” rule: one small taste at the station, then I leave the area and sip water before deciding if it needs anything. Half the time it didn’t, and I’d have sworn it did while standing there. I also jot a tally mark for each taste in my notes app, just to see the real number by close. Do you track tastes at all, or does your setup make them feel like a non-event now? Curious what habit has stuck longest besides the spoon/saucer.

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