The unexpected shift nine weeks in that surprised me most

Sep 30 1794 views 7 posts

I have been tracking weekly averages in a small notebook since my first week, mainly because the daily scale noise was discouraging me. Eleven weeks in, I am down 16 pounds, roughly 1.4 pounds per week on average, and my waist is about two inches smaller.

Here is the odd part, and it is not the number on the scale. I have stopped eating while I cook dinner. For years I would stand at the counter and finish whatever I was chopping, then still sit down to a full plate. Now I plate the food, sit, and often leave a few bites behind without thinking about it. My husband noticed before I did.

I did not expect a habit I never consciously chose to quietly disappear. Honestly, it has been more reassuring than the sizes.

Has anyone else had a small, strange habit shift like this, one you only noticed after a few weeks?

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Honestly, This really resonates. Around week 8 I noticed I stopped grazing while prepping dinner — not because I white-knuckled it, but because the background “one bite won’t count” urge just quieted. What helped me understand it: I started rating hunger/fullness 1–10 right before cooking and again at the table. Turns out I was often at a 4 before dinner, so tasting while cooking pushed me past comfortable. Now I set out a small bowl of raw veg or sip tea while I cook, then sit to eat. Gentle question: when you noticed the shift, was it all cooking or mainly certain foods/recipes? And did your weekly averages change around the same time, or did this feel separate from the scale?

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The cooking/eating thing hit home. I run a cafe, and my hidden calories were all the “quality control” bites—one spoon of sauce, a corner of pastry, finishing the broken cookie. What changed for me wasn’t willpower but making tasting a real sit-down moment: tiny plate, at the counter, then done. Grazing while prepping was the habit, not hunger. Did your urge to taste as you cook fade, or are you just more aware of it? I’m also a weekly-average tracker because daily noise makes me nuts, so your notebook made me smile.

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This is so good. The non-scale shift for me was the “cleanup nibbles”—finishing the last bites off my kids’ plates, crusts, the random half-portion left in the pan. I never counted it before, but it was basically a daily snack. Now I scrape plates straight into the bin and don’t even think about it. My weekly averages helped me spot it because weekends always bumped up a little. Curious—did your grocery list change too? I’m buying way fewer “just in case” snacks, and that’s felt almost as telling as the waist measurement. Congrats on 16 pounds and 2 inches!

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Congratulations on the weekly average—that consistency is the real win. One shift I did not expect was losing the clean-plate reflex. Around week seven I began leaving two or three bites at dinner without thinking, and my weekly average held steadier because I was not pushing past comfortable fullness. Are you noticing your hunger cues are quieter at specific times, or more evenly

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for me the weird one was the late-night gaming hand-to-mouth thing. i used to slam a 2L of soda and a family bag of chips between matches and barely register it. around week 9 i noticed i was just sipping cold water and actually waiting for real hunger. no willpower moment, it just quietly switched off. my desk trash

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Love that you’re tracking weekly averages—it’s such a sanity saver. My unexpected shift around week 9 was that I stopped needing a sweet thing after dinner, not because I white-knuckled it, but because dinner actually felt satisfying. What helped was adding a crunchy veg or a little more protein/fat at lunch so I wasn’t runnig on empty by 4pm. Curious: have you noticed any changes in when hunger hits, not just what you eat? That timing piece has been the most surprising for me.

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