New here — 41, night shift, first month in

Sep 13 824 views 10 posts

Hi everyone. I'm 41, I work overnights in a hospital lab, and I've been carrying the same 40 pounds since my youngest started kindergarten. My sister's been on a GLP-1 for about a year and finally convinced me to stop lurking here and actually ask my own doctor questions instead of guessing. Three weeks into keeping a real food and sleep log, and the main thing I'm wrestling with is getting enough protein in when nothing sounds good, plus not being wiped out on the days after a night shift. I lift twice a week at the Y and walk a lot, nothing fancy. Just happy to have somewhere to read what actually works for people.

Five weeks into this cut: 201.6 lb, waist down 0.75 inches, but bench top set fell 15 lb and squats felt like sandbags for about ten days. That was the unexpected turn — scale and tape looked great while the training log said under-fueled. Baseline was near 202, similar height and waist, and the assumption going in was that appetite suppression would just make the cut easier. It did, until the food log showed around 1,700 kcal on lifting days, even with 200g protein, because hunger simply wasn't there. Daily weigh-ins sat flat for eight days, then dropped 1.8 lb overnight after carbs went back in around sessions. What often goes unsaid is that appetite suppression can make a cut feel effortless while quietly flattening gym performance, so the main lifts become the honest feedback loop. These days it's less about the morning scale and more about whether top sets hold and the waist keeps trending down. Also, 1g/lb protein sounds good, but if total calories stay too low for too long, protein alone doesn't rescue pressing. Not saying everyone needs the same thing — just that the data made me stop chasing the weekly drop. If you're tracking lifts, watch bar speed and rep quality, not just tonnage. At a 35.5-inch waist and 18 to 19 percent, you're probably one decent mini-cut away from a clear visual

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Day 19: my sleep tracker showed 22 fewer minutes of deep sleep once appetite vanished and I under-ate. That wrecked my gym mornings.

My week 6 labs had one weird reversal: fasting glucose dropped from 101 to 89, but HDL fell 4 points and my resting heart rate ticked up 5 bpm. Turned out I was doing too much cardio on too few carbs, not a GLP-1 problem per se. Once I added 30g carbs pre-lift and dropped one zone 2 session, HDL started recovering by week 10. Labs are boring until they explain why lifts feel bad.

My bench stalled 3 weeks, then hit a 10 lb PR on my lowest-calorie week.

First quote that came back was $1,180/month, so grocery spend got tracked for 60 days: dropped $210, mostly protein and impulse snacks vanishing from the cart. Weird reversal — food savings don't cover the cost, so the real tradeoff is the restaurant budget, not the grocery bill. If insurance denies, ask for the formulary exception in writing; have seen it flip after two denials.

Expect your top sets to feel heavier around week 3 or 4 and don't read too much into it. My bench dropped about 15 lb for a couple weeks, mostly from less glycogen and water, and it came back once I stopped chasing a daily deficit and put more carbs around lifting days. At 202 with a 35.5" waist, I'd bet half that 7 lb is water. Judge it off your 7-day average weight and the weekly tape, not the morning number.

I did nearly the same thing at 39 — 5'9", 208 lb, 19% by tape, and I landed at 174 with a 31.5" waist over about seven months. Here's the part that isn't fun: the last two points ate three of those months. The first 20 lb came off at roughly a lb a week and my lifts were fine; below 185, half a pound a week was the ceiling before my sleep went sideways and pressing felt like moving sandbags. My contrarian take is that I would not aim at 12% during the first three months on this. I tried it, treated the appetite suppression like a free deficit, ran 1,000+ under for six weeks, and my bench fell 20 lb while my waist barely budged because I was bleeding muscle along with fat. Pulling back to a 400-500 daily deficit with protein at 1g/lb made the mirror dramatically better even though the scale got boring. Two things I'd change: judge yourself by the weekly waist and one pair of jeans, not daily weight, because I held water for 10 days straight and almost quit over it, and take a full week at maintenance every 8-10 weeks, which cost me nothing and reset my head and my lifts. Also worth knowing that 12% by Navy tape and 12% in the mirror are different animals. I hit 12 by tape, looked soft in photos, and realized I'd cut more off my upper chest than my gut. Slow and boring wins.

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Friendly warning: 202 at 5'10" and 12% is a genuinely big dude. Don't be shocked when you look smaller, not bigger.

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What stalled me for two solid months wasn't training at all, it was Friday night through Sunday afternoon. I'd log Mon-Thu at 2,200 calories and 200g protein, feel smug about it, then eat back 4,000-5,000 over the weekend between a birthday dinner, a few beers, and whatever my kids left on their plates, so my weekly average came out flat while I'd have sworn I was dialed in. Fixing it was unglamorous: 50g of protein before 9am (usually cottage cheese and eggs), pre-logging Friday and Saturday dinner before I left the house, and a 40-minute walk both weekend mornings. That alone took me from stalled to about 0.7 lb a week without changing a single weekday meal. The other lever is sleep, and I say that as someone who ignored it for a decade. Any week I averaged under 6.5 hours, my weigh-ins jumped 2-3 lb of water, my appetite was noticeably louder, and my squat warmups felt like a max attempt. I tracked sleep in the same app as my food for three months and the pattern was embarrassingly obvious. On the gym side, I kept intensity around 80-85% but cut accessory volume by roughly a third, and my strength actually held better over the last 10 lb than in previous cuts where I tried to keep everything. You probably need less work to hold your numbers than you think, and the recovery you're not getting from food is the first thing that disappears when you're short on sleep.

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